Difficulties That Come With Dating A Mexican..
hello folks welcome straight back to our Channel that which was that? 2 weeks in the past we crafted a video exactly where Joss was speaking about the issues which come with dating a German with dating him, particularly nicely.. nicely these days we’re about to… are you okay? I actually have allergies guy! these days we’re about to transform it all around and I’m about to tell you each of the difficulties which come with dating a Mexican more specifically, this specific 1 on this page I’m so fearful of this video! I’m gonna get offended in a major way having said that i know you love me and I know you privately adore those things about me you imagine so? I’m sure not every one of them… how dare you guy since like I mentioned before: Before we start I want to mention one important thing I love you guys, i have a lot to say…. I love Mexicans. I love this one particularly Mexico is definitely a diversified land and tend to be individuals.. yes that’s very accurate we are available in each personality, color, form and shape and then we don’t would like to generalize anything.. we’re not declaring which every Mexican does those ideas! when we say “problems”, these things are not bad we mean that it was problematic for me as a foreigner because it was something new and I had to get used to it and not because I’m a weirdo just like in the last video I’m gonna start with the most obvious problem you have to learn English and even if your ebony bbw mature partner knows English, like she does the parents probably don’t. that’s true there’s a lot of people in Mexico that speak English or at least they know the basics but they’re so scared of speaking because of their accent or something this problem gets even bigger when you think about how big families are in Mexico and that’s the next problem you’re gonna meet a lot of people whenever you meet your boyfriend or girlfriend in Mexico and it’s Christmas, New Year, Independence Day, a wedding a wedding… there are like weddings every month yes thats’ true! be ready to meet all around 100 or 200 people one day which are part of the family which can be only portion of the household! If it’s the same for you guys but in my family, my grandparents from my mom’s side had 11 children the first time that I went to Mexico it was for Christmas I had to meet literally everybody from her family I probably know four names of her entire family don’t get overwhelmed guys… just say hi and act like you know everybody with the next point we’re gonna arrive at a very important part of Mexico, not even friends I don’t know: the meal you will get excess weight and also this is a result of a couple of things: first, of all Mexican mums love to make you eat and they give you a lot of food and even when you’re done they ask you are you still hungry? have this! and in addition in addition to that it’s difficult to refuse since Mexican foods are awesome scrumptious Oh yeah my our god I miss out on it so much… please deliver me Enchiladas Potosinas you should! in my opinion too remember to one other reason why you’re about to get body fat due to the meals is simply because it’s inexpensive in comparison with Germany correct! lets go to the next point now, in the last video just mentioned that Germans are usually on time and that was a problem for her because she wasn’t used to that. yeah for me it’s the other way around because she tends to be late all the time… but you too sometimes.. I’m actually also delayed I’m like Mexican.. you’re half Mexican that’s in fact a stereotype that we hate I hate when folks tell me: you’re going to be later because you’re Mexican but I’m late at all times! even though I try out my greatest… that’s anything I’ve fought with eternally the subsequent position which i had to become accustomed to a whole lot: you may get frightened although driving a vehicle I don’t want to drive in Mexico and in many cases once your companion, in this case she, is driving a car Mexico you, feel like: where will be the regulations? where by are definitely the facial lines on the floor that let you know through which lane you must go along with the openings guy oh my our god there may be a single road I must take every time I check out my house they have countless openings.. I discovered them my cardiovascular system I’m like… when investing in to an intersection there is not really a principle saying who is able to go very first Of course! – there are also no indicators you typically tell me, usually the one inside the greatest neighborhood will go initially but for some reason all the Mexicans know where to push it’s common sense bro! it had been the worst in Mexico City there is one very busy neighborhood and that we had been originating from a tiny street and all sorts of the folks from your tiny streets had been just moving such as this close to all the other vehicles in Mexico Area I discovered my well being pass through my brain for real like seven occasions and also the drivers of your ubers were like: yeah wassup bro! how’s the weather today? speaking to us eventually is definitely rather impressive since Mexicans truly realize how to drive in crazy circumstances! okay the following stage is actually a humorous 1 and also a regrettable 1.. sometimes for squares of lavatory paper is all that you’ll get in which do you encounter that? significantly! we were in a market place in Mexico City and I desired to visit the lavatory and that person in-front practically provided me with a number of squares of lavatory papers in this article, do your thing! and that i was like: If that’s enough you knew it wasn’t enough, i don’t know! – No and so i shared with him: can I have another? I didn’t know it was a problem for you After all in Germany you will discover potty papers proper next to the bathroom.. yeah in Mexico also! yeah ok that doesn’t occur frequently.. I have got to say this taken place like a second time if you ask me… haha he’s overreacting! When I was in primary school there was a woman giving the paper oh yeah you told me that before – in the toilet she would ask you: primary or second? and if you say one she gives you one square and if you say two she would give you two or three great on the other side that’s a good thing because it’s environment-friendly you’re not using more than you need so good for you guys now we get into the real stuff oh no on to the real st- .. I don’t want real stuff this problem comes up even before you start dating Mexicans are very touchy for us foreigners that might be a problem because we might think “oh my god she is flirting with me or he is flirting with me”, but no! this is just the way that they are they’re similar to this… so don’t buy your hopes up… -OMG it’s crazy I’m so unaware of my body when I’m talking to someone when I first moved to Germany I met a girl at university and we were friends but we were just starting to be friends and one time we were waiting for a bus and I was like “I’m so tired” and I did this to lay on her shoulder and she moved her shoulder very very slowly and my head fell of course guys I’m not saying that every Mexican is touchy let us know in the comments what do you think the next problem is one that mostly foreigner guys might experience because Mexican girls can be very competitive or in other words kind of jealous I’m not saying that every Mexican girl is jealous, they’re obviously girls that are not jealous at all what I’ve experienced with her in the beginning and with your friends when they talk about stuff they can get furious OMG my friends are gonna hate you next time we go to Mexico they are very like “this guy is mine! and I’m not letting him venture out! ” which is a bit an excessive amount of people but… do i need to help remind you of the other day? when we were walking on the street in Germany a guy stared at you and me literally stared back at him like this for five minutes until he stopped staring at me but you’re totally right in that regard when I started dating you I noticed that my perception of love was completely twisted because of what I was surrounded by but now she changed completely she’s super not jealous anymore, which is a little bit sad because it was fun to watch dude character development I’m totally like… -ok you will be like.. so when I started dating you I used to be like “wow a whole new w0rld! ” I actually have a hypothesis even though and I know this is about to make me audio crazy but pick up me out I seem like a lot of this pondering is formed by telenovelas. Don’t appear in my opinion! have you ever observed a Mexican telenovela? -no -the ladies are really extraordinary and they’re so envious and they’re so like “he’s my own she’s never ever about to acquire him away from me! ” exactly why is this lady looking at you? this stupid $·Percent·” footnote: guys can also be very jealous so it’s not only girls just saying don’t come for us the next point is something that I had to get used to and I still have to get used to because it’s still the same it will never change Mexicans show their emotions very very strongly, it has a good side and a bad side Mexicans really show you how much they love you, they’re very affectionate she tells me she loves me like 20 times a day -and Janik it’s like “same” when you’re fighting the emotions come out without a filter and the these emotions are not pretty okay in my defense… I have nothing to defend but I have to say I love this about Mexicans as a foreigner if you date a Mexican I feel like there’s a very high chance you have never experienced anything like that before, this amount of love so it really changes your perspective also about love I think your perspective completely changed yeah the loving side it’s bigger than anything else -yes, yes baby yes! see that’s what I mean.. now we get to a very interesting point and I call it “the gentleman dilemma” the thing is that in Mexico a lot of guys do very “gentlemany” things for example they buy flowers, they pick them up at their house, they open the doors and all that stuff so when a Mexican girl is dating a German she’s kind of expecting the same because she doesn’t know that he’s different so then German guys have to step up their game times a thousand ha ha ha ha to make her feel loved, because in her mind this is how love looks like and then I come along, the total opposite it’s basically just a cultural difference and you just have to meet in the middle I would say yes, now if you’re a girl from another country and you’re dating a Mexican guy then it might be super cool for you because he is just picking you up, he brings you roses and you’re like “what is this? ” in the end of the day it helped both of us because now I’m more romantic and I’m more cold-hearted ha ha ha ha that is also a plus -no, I lowered my expectations with you no, big time though.. expectations are the mother of disappointment and resentment now we get to the last point of this video and that’s a very difficult one it has roots in the old traditions of Mexicans or Europeans or religion even as a foreigner you cannot expect that’s and sleepovers a thing that I had to deal with a lot in the beginning like it was super difficult for me to understand why am I not able to stay in the same room as my girlfriend? in Germany guys can stay at the girlfriend’s property or women can tell the boyfriend’s residence even though they’re lower than 18, probably 16 they may stay at the friends of boyfriend’s residence sinners! and then in Mexico believe that the most detrimental of folks, they are doing some very awful things which they cannot do somewhere else one of the more persistent emails I get from couples is girls which are anxiously asking me how would you make Janik realize that he are not able to continue to be? or how could i make my mother and father comprehend? it’s so difficult. -it’s challenging for us also -of course each side because in the beginning you couldn’t comprehend it that you were like “I don’t obtain it” I used to be 22 or 23 years old when we started dating and I was like “I’m so outdated and I are not able to remain in the same room as her” and my sister is even old and her boyfriend couldn’t keep there I’m a grown-up. If you have a girlfriend from Mexico and you’re having these issues just believe her when she says “this is how it works” -you might not be able to understand why but you just have to accept it I accept it, I respect it whenever I’m in Mexico -or if you like it then you should put a ring on it everything changes it is crazy, -I don’t get it either but it’s just how life works in Mexico.. we don’t want to get deep into it but! Once a ring is on that finger you’re free to go And also this might be more a problem of smaller cities like SLP where everything is like a double moral SLP is not that small. once. – But compared to Mexico City I don’t know if it works differently there let us know in the comments -yeah guys we’re super curious to see what you have to say about this and how does it work wherever you’re from these were the things that I had to get used to in the beginning of us dating obviously love is stronger than all of these problems together and there are so many more good things that come when you date a Mexican or a German oh yeah and that list is way longer so if you want to see a video about that please let us know in the comments down below and if you’re just starting a relationship with a Mexican or with a German hang in there talk about things, communicate, meet in the middle so we hope you liked this video if you liked it give us a thumbs up, subscribe to our channel if you’re not already and we’ll see you next week Adios muchachos Tschuss!